Navigating the Abyss: Human resilience in November’s trials

November, the eleventh month of the year, opens its gates with the stark reminder that “No” stands as the first two letters in its name. It’s a peculiar coincidence that aligns with two distinct stories that have left a lasting impact on my understanding of human nature.

I recount an Executive Coaching Engagement that unfolded like a tapestry of opportunities emerging from the acceptance of what is. The other takes us to the Nigerian Ports Authority, where a Union Conflict brought operations to a standstill, and only my late father, Chief Ports Personnel leader, and the managing director at the time, were allowed access into the storm’s eye. These narratives serve as mirrors reflecting the resilience and fortitude of individuals, amidst crisis.

1. The power of acceptance and emergence:

The first tale revolves around an executive coaching engagement, an experience that taught me the profound impact of embracing what is, even when it seems counterintuitive. In the business world, resistance to change is a common reflex, a barricade against the unknown. However, this story challenges that norm. It narrates a journey where a leader, faced with challenges, chose not to resist the currents but rather to flow with them. The acceptance of the situation became a catalyst for unforeseen opportunities.

In times of crisis, individuals often find themselves at a crossroads – resist and persist or accept and emerge. This narrative illustrates the power of the latter. The ability to acknowledge the reality of a situation, even if unfavourable, and then navigate through it strategically can lead to unexpected breakthroughs. It’s a testament to the resilience of the human spirit, demonstrating that sometimes, saying “No” to resistance is the key to unlocking hidden doors of opportunity.

2. Human faces amidst the storm at NPA:

The second story unfolds against the backdrop of a Union conflict at the Nigerian Ports Authority (NPA), a situation that left the ports paralyzed. Amidst the chaos, a select few, including my late father and the managing director, found themselves granted entry into the headquarters. The tale sheds light on the human faces behind the headlines and the decisions made in the eye of the storm.

Crises have a unique way of revealing the character of individuals. In this narrative, the focus is on the few who held the responsibility of navigating through turbulent waters. The experience highlights the weight of leadership and the resilience required to make decisions that impact not only the individual but an entire organisation. It serves as a reflection on the delicate balance between authority and empathy, showcasing that crisis management demands not just strategic thinking but also a deep understanding of the human element.

3. Lessons for humanity in November’s trials:

As I reflect on these two stories, a common thread emerges – the indomitable spirit of humanity in the face of crisis. November, with its symbolic “No” at the forefront, becomes a metaphor for the challenges that life throws our way. Whether it be in the boardroom or amidst labour disputes, the human response to crisis is a narrative of resilience, adaptability, and the ability to find opportunities within adversity.

In these reflections, I find a universal lesson for humanity. It is a call to embrace the uncertainties, to navigate through storms with grace, and to recognize that sometimes, the answer lies not in resistance but in acceptance. November’s trials become a canvas upon which the human spirit paints stories of growth, resilience, and emergence. In the end, it is a reminder that in every “No,” there lies the potential for a powerful “Yes” – a testament to the unwavering strength of the human spirit.